DHH and Omarchy: Midlife crisis

Couple weeks ago Cloudflare announced it would be sponsoring some Open Source projects. Throwing money at pet projects of random techbros would hardly be news, but there was a certain vibe behind them and the people leading them.

In an unexpected turn of events, the millionaire receiving money from the billion-dollar company, thought it would be important to devote a whole blog post to random brokeboy from Athens that had an opinion on the Internet.

I was astonished to find the blog post. Now that I moved from normal stalkers to millionaire stalkers, is it a sign that I made it? Have I become such a menace? But more importantly: Who the hell even is this guy?

D-H-Who?

When I was painting with crayons in a deteriorating kindergarten somewhere in Greece, DHH, David Heinemeier Hansson, was busy with dumping Ruby on Rails in the world and becoming a niche tech celebrity. His street cred for releasing Ruby on Rails would later be replaced by his writing on remote work. Famously authoring “Remote: Office Not Required”, a book based on his own company, 37signals.

That cultural cache would go out the window in 2022 when he got in hot water with his own employees after an internal review process concluded that 37signals had been less than stellar when it came to handling race and diversity. Said review process culminated in a clash, where the employees were interested in further exploration of the topic, which DHH responded to them with “You are the person you are complaining about” (meaning: you, pointing out a problem, is the problem).

No politics at work

This incident lead the two founders of 37signals to the executive decision to forbid any kind of “societal and political discussions” inside the company, which, predictably, lead to a third of the company resigning in protest. This was a massive blow to 37signals. The company was famous for being extremely selective when hiring, as well as affording employees great benefits. Suddenly having a third of the workforce resign over disagreement with management sent a far more powerful message than anything they could have imagined.

It would become the starting point for the downwards and radicalizing spiral along with the extended and very public crashout DHH will be going through in the coming years.

Starting your own conference so you can never be banned from it

Subsequently, DHH was uninvited from keynoting at RailsConf on the account of everyone being grossed out about the handling of the matter and in solidarity with the community members along the employees that quit in protest.

That, in turn, would lead to the creation of the Rails Foundation and starting Rails World. A new conference about Rails that 100%-swear-to-god was not just about DHH having his own conference where he can keynote and would never be banned.

In the following years DHH would go to explore and express all the spectrum of “down the alt-right pipeline” opinions, like:

Omarchy

You either log off a hero, or you see yourself create another linux distribution, and having failed the first part, DHH has been pouring his energy into creating a new project. While letting everyone know how he much prefers that than going to therapy. Thus, Omarchy was born, a set of copy pasted Window Manager and Vim configs turned distro. One of the two projects that Cloudflare will be proudly funding shortly. The only possible option for the compositor would be Hyprland, and even though it’s Wayland (bad!), it’s one of the good-non-woke ones. In a similar tone, the project website would be featuring the tight integration of Omarchy with SuperGrok.

Rubygems

On a parallel track, the entire Ruby community more or less collapsed in the last two months. Long story short, is that one of the major Ruby Central sponsors, Sidekiq, pulled out the funding after DHH was invited to speak at RailsConf 2025. Shopify, where DHH sits in the boards of directors, was quick to save the day and match the lost funding. Coincidentally an (allegedly) takeover of key parts of the Ruby Infrastructure was carried out by Ruby Central and placed under the control of Shopify in the following weeks.

This story is ridiculous, and the entire ruby community is imploding following this. There’s an excellent write-up of the story so far here.

In a similar note, and at the same time, we also find DHH drooling over Off-brand Peter Thiel and calling for an Anduril takeover of the Nix community in order to purge all the wokes.

On Framework

At the same time, Framework had been promoting Omarchy in their social media accounts for a good while. And DHH in turn has been posting about how great Framework hardware is and how the Framework CEO is contributing to his Arch Linux reskin. On October 8th, Framework announced its sponsorhip of the Hyprland project, following 37signal doing the same thing couple weeks earlier. On the same day they made another post promoting Omarchy yet again. This caused a huge backlash and overall PR nightmare, with the apex being a forum thread with over 1700 comments so far.

The first reply in forum post, comes from Nirav, Framework’s CEO, with a very questionable choice of words:

We support open source software (and hardware), and partner with developers and maintainers across the ecosystem. We deliberately create a big tent, because we want open source software to win. We don’t partner based on individual’s or organization’s beliefs, values, or political stances outside of their alignment with us on increasing the adoption of open source software.

I definitely understand that not everyone will agree with taking a big tent approach, but we want to be transparent that bringing in and enabling every organization and community that we can across the Linux ecosystem is a deliberate choice.

Mentioning twice a “big tent” as the official policy and response to complains about supporting Fascist and Racist shitheads, is nothing sort of digging a hole for yourself so deep it that it reemerges in another continent.

Later on, Nirav would mention that they were finalizing sponsorship of the GNOME Foundation (12k/year) and KDE e.V. (10k/year). In the linked page you can also find a listing of Rails World (DHH’s personal conference) for a one time payment of 24k dollars.

There has not been an update since, and at no point have they addressed their support and collaboration with DHH. Can’t lose the money cow and free twitter clout I guess.

While I would personally would like to see the donation be rejected, I am not involved with the ongoing discussion on the GNOME Foundation side nor the Foundation itself. What I can say is that myself and others from the GNOME OS team, were involved in initial discussions with Framework, about future collaborations and hardware support. GNOME OS, much like the GNOME Flatpak runtime, is very useful as a reference point in order to identify if a bug, in hardware or software, is distro-specific or not.

It’s been a month since the initial debacle with Framework. Regardless of what the GNOME Foundation plans on doing, the GNOME OS team certainly does not feel comfortable in further collaboration given how they have handled the situation so far. It’s sad because the people working there understand the issue, but this does not seem to be a trait shared by the management.

A software midlife crisis

During all this, DHH decided that his attention must be devoted to get into a mouth-off with a greek kid that called him a Nazi. Since this is not violence (see “Words are not violence” essay), he decided to respond in kind, by calling for violence against me (see “Words are violence” essay).

To anyone who knows a nerd or two over the age of 35, all of the above is unsurprising. This is not some grand heel turn, or some brainwashing that DHH suffered. This is straight up a midlife crisis turned fash speedrun.

Here’s a dude who barely had any time to confront the world before falling into an infinite money glitch in the form of Ruby on Rails, Jeff Bezos throwing him crazy money, Apple bundling his software as a highlighted feature, becoming a “new work” celebrity and Silicon Valley “Guru”. Is it any surprise that such a person later would find the most minuscule kind of opposition as an all-out attack on his self-image?

DHH has never had the “best” opinions on a range of things, and they have been dutifully documented by others, but neither have many other developers that are also ignorant of topics outside of software. Being insecure about your hairline and masculine aesthetic to the point of adopting the Charles Manson haircut to cover your balding is one thing. However, it is entirely different to become a drop-shipped version of Elon, tweeting all day and stopping only to write opinion pieces that come off as proving others wrong rather than original thoughts.

Case in point: DHH recently wrote about how “men who’d prefer to feel useful over being listened to”. The piece is unironically titled “Building competency is better than therapy”. It is an insane read, and I’ll speculate that it feels as if someone, who DHH can’t outright dismiss, suggested he goes to therapy. It’s a very “I’ll show you off in front of my audience” kind of text.

Add to that a three year speedrun decrying the “theocracy of DEI” and the seemingly authoritarian powers of “the wokes”, all coincidentally starting after he could not get over his employees disagreeing with him on racial sensitivities.

How can someone suggest his workers read Ta-Nehisi Coates’s “Between the World and Me” and Michelle Alexander’s “The New Jim Crow” in the aftermath of George Floyd’s killing and the BLM protests. While a couple of months later writing salivating blogposts after the EDL eugenics rally in England and giving the highest possible praise to Tommy Robinson?

Can these people be redeemed?

It is certainly not going to help that niche celebrities, like DHH, still hold clout and financial power and are able to spout the worst possible takes without any backlash because of their position.

A bunch of Ruby developers recently started a petition to get DHH distanced from the community, and it didn’t go far before getting brigaded by the worst people you didn’t need to know existed. This of course was amplified to oblivion by DHH and a bunch of sycophants chasing the clout provided by being retweeted by DHH. It would shortly be followed by yet another “I’m never wrong” piece.

Is there any chance for these people, who are shielded by their well-paying jobs, their exclusively occupational media diet, and stimuli all happen to reinforce the default world view?

I think there is hope, but it demands more voices in tech spaces to speak up about how having empathy for others, or valuing diversity is not some grand conspiracy but rather enrichment to our lives and spaces. This comes hand in hand with firmly shutting down concern trolling and ridiculous “extreme centrist” takes where someone is expected to find common ground with others advocating for their extermination.

One could argue that the true spirit of FLOSS, which attracted much of the current midlife crisis developers in the first place, is about diversity and empathy for the varied circumstances and opinions that enriched our space.

Conclusion

I do not know if his heart is filled with hate or if he is incredibly lost, but it makes little difference since this is his output in the world.

David, when you read this I hope it will be a wake-up call. It’s not too late, you only need to go offline and let people help you. Stop the pathetic TemuElon speedrun and go take care of your kids. Drop the anti-woke culture wars and pick up a Ta-Nehisi Coates book again.

To everyone else: Push back against their vile and misanthropic rhetoric at every turn. Don’t let their poisonous roots fester into the ground. There is no place for their hate here. Don’t let them find comfort and spew their vomit in any public space.

Crush Fascism. Free Palestine ✊.

Comments

20 responses to “DHH and Omarchy: Midlife crisis”

  1. Chris Avatar
    Chris

    Thank you.

  2. Upim Avatar
    Upim

    “Push back against their vile rhetoric.. There is no place for their hate here… Don’t let them find comfort and spew their vomit in any public space”
    Also, calling Nazi and Fascist + “Free Palestine” – calling for murder of Israelis. Sure, I’m convinced now. Your violence is ok, others isn’t.

    Other people are entitled to opinions you don’t agree with.

    1. Jordan Petridis Avatar
      Jordan Petridis

      What you call violence, the rest of the world , including the UN, calls a liberation struggle against an occupying force and its a fundamental right under the international human rights law.

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Right_to_resist

      I would say you should open a book you fascist shithead, but you wouldn’t be one if you could read.

    2. Baloo Uriza Avatar

      Imagine being so oblivious about the middle east that you side with a fascist aggressor bent on genocide instead of the right side of history…

    3. Upim Avatar
      Upim

      Look how quickly you righteous, “smart” and “moral” people start with the name calling. You guys are embarrassing thinking you are on the right side of history or that you outsides know anything about what’s going on here in the middle east, with the propaganda and media bias from side to side and history re-writes.
      You leftists became so condescending and disgusting, ignorantly throw around big words like “genocide”, “fascist” and “nazi”, you should be ashamed of yourselves, your grandparents sure are.

      You are the violent ones, but you don’t see it because you think you are “right”.

      1. Proficiency Avatar
        Proficiency

        This guy said “Nazi, KKK and Zionist entitled to an opinion you’re disagree with”.

      2. Daniel 0day Lewis Avatar
        Daniel 0day Lewis

        calm_hitler.md

  3. Conrad Avatar

    Thanks, loved your writing style not to mention the push back!

  4. Midlifer Avatar
    Midlifer

    This is ageist garbage. Midlife starts at 50.

    1. Baloo Uriza Avatar

      Life expectancy in the US barely makes it past 70, bud. By the time you’re 50 here, you’ve been eligible to join AARP for 5 years and get the senior discount at rural diners.

    2. Terrace Avatar
      Terrace

      With life expectancy for men in the USA falling below 80, 50 seems a good bit more than mid-way through.

  5. Tomaz Canabrava Avatar
    Tomaz Canabrava

    Mate, I don’t know who you are but I love you already.
    Keep up the good work.

  6. chillguy1917 Avatar
    chillguy1917

    You dropped this king ✊

  7. Lukas Avatar
    Lukas

    That list of headlines you created is pure gold, dear Sir.

  8. Jason V Avatar
    Jason V

    I’ve been off the DHH train for quite a while, for reasons covered well in this article. Then he did an interesting conversation with Lex (who I generally don’t watch either) and then he made a few interesting videos about Omarchy, and then he posted some wacky “the left is fomenting the violence” stuff and I peaced out again. I’ll know better than to pay attention to his next little bubble.

  9. John Colagioia Avatar

    Fantastic post. This sort of thing (because things like it come up a lot) often makes me wonder how it became so routine to hear “we should convince everybody to contribute to these public goods and encourage everybody to get involved in the means of production, and also we need to stay out of politics,” and then further reactionary when nobody pushes back on it.

    And yes, the therapy obsession seems right on target. You can see the need to look strong (with everybody in this vein), and they throw themselves into these absurd projects to avoid facing anything.

    Thanks for the read. I feel like this, combined with the deep dive on the technical horrors of Omarchy (https://マリウス.com/a-word-on-omarchy/), should become part of the standard response about how the project deserves support.

  10. Daniel 0day Lewis Avatar
    Daniel 0day Lewis

    Good post. Free Palestine.

    By the way. The next time you feel like engaging with these guys, you need but utter a single word: “nazis”, in front of the bathroom mirror, to no one in particular. They will materialize out of nowhere and beat down your door, screaming “why are you calling me a nazi!”

  11. Marko Avatar
    Marko

    Thank you for carefully analysing how DHH has evolved.

    I have been following the Rails world for quite some time, mostly from a distance. When DHH started showing more respect for other people, I was pleased with this change. When I heard the first disturbing comments, I thought: OK, I don’t have to agree with him on everything.

    But it just got worse and worse.

    What I don’t find appropriate is to link this to a possible midlife crisis. Yes, the timing may be right. But what does that explain? You can also question yourself during this time and change for the better.

  12. Arne Avatar
    Arne

    I like the way this is written, there are some strong rhetoric twists. you lost me at “free palastine”, though. Made me forget every point you made and instantly root for the danish guy. Good luck to you!

    1. Jordan Petridis Avatar
      Jordan Petridis

      So Islamophobia is all it takes before you start rooting for the fascists. Thanks for the self report.

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